Please do as cadet days and read DR/DB. LRT is for a very specific set of circumstances. I don't think you're the yet since she hasn't left.

Detach (read that thread carefully). 180s or stop behaviors that haven't worked. GAL!! That is very important. And be spouse only a fool would leave.

Also study sandi's rules. Learn them. And follow them. Your still early in your sitch and the less mistakes you make now will pay dividends later.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018