Husband left for the second time - 5

[HelenaJ]

Are others here still wearing their wedding rings? When my husband asked for a divorce in January and then took his girlfriend to Dubai I stopped wearing mine. It felt like the right thing to do. On the other hand, I don't want to falsely advertise that I'm single when I'm still married.

Hi Nicole, my H hasn't worn his in 4.5 years so I finally took mine off and gave them back to him. Then I felt worried about it looking like I was putting myself out as single and like Arshi said I also didn't want to have to ask questions. So I bought an Enso rose gold band. It symbolizes that I'm married but that's it.

I also did some research on the Madonna/Whore complex. I wanted to look into it bc H never wanted sex with me when I was pregnant. Maybe some men simply aren't attracted to pregnant women and that's all there is to it. But I found it an interesting topic nonetheless.