I definitely did not dodge your questions. I guess i read too fast and respond fast which is one reason at times i dont get to the point straight. Could be my flaws as well.
Well i do see an IC once in a while. He has checked me for depression and anxiety issues and he also assured i have none of the narcissistic / borderline traits. I have no hard time accepting others advice. In fact i have been following sandi2 and few others including you and have adhered to advices. That is not the point here. And i do admit my fault. I was just explaining why and hence had to put my wife in the mix. SSM and trust - these issues are largely contributed by me. and I am agreeing to it. I will update this post as and when i have new info.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)