Firstly NPD's dont experience guilt. At all. EVER. Nor do they experience love, compassion, empathy or remorse. I think you need to do a lot more research before you start throwing mental diagnoses around, I have heavy suspicions my Wife is disordered, but im not a shrink and cannot definitively make that call.
Secondly, as I said before I wish you the best of luck in YOUR method, i humbly disagree. I will be watching your sitch, I have been where you are at before, disagreeing and arguing with half the board. It didn't help. It wont help you. Listen, absorb. People are here to help you in your time of frailty and vulnerability.
I dont think this path you are on will lead to success.
By the sounds of it with you talking about "charming" women and "She thinks she isnt beautiful enough to attract me", i think you need to look into an IC as soon as possible also, that is a dangerous train of thought you are on. You exhibit a lot of controlling behaviors, even here in how you type. This concerns me.
You are mind reading, making assumptions of her mindset based on what behaviors she is CHOOSING to show you.
-------------------------------- A few last questions.
In what ways can YOU grow, change and improve yourself?
What is YOUR biggest flaw?
What did YOU do to contribute to the downfall of your marriage?
Nobody is perfect, What do you do to make you an imperfect husband? What could you do better?
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
