It seems a major hurdle you need to clear is believing everything your wife is telling you.
"Believe nothing they say and half of what they do"
you need to assume she is lying to you man, and i can tell you based off of the things you have posted that she said, she IS lying to you. Often, and blatantly. She tells you "i dont plan on dating for 2-3 years" and you believe that?
It could be manipulative or a straight lie. You never know. It appears that way, Yes. But as of now she does not have anyone in her heart. She is just too broken hearted. I think she needs to heal from it first, which itself will take a long time. Like some of the behavior about her, I posted it in your thread. And she does have some BPD, narcissistic qualities. However, you just cant treat them with medication. If she is going through so much of pain now, she does not have the proper mindset to even give her own life a chance to move on. That is where some level of emotional connection is required. Rather than abandoning her. It could be like meet her sometime once in a while, just be stringent with the time, meet at your own terms and plan to leave first. You can be emotionally safe with no expectations. She can also think over and keep safe. And leave the rest to faith!
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
