"but it is completely and entirely in her hands as to whether or not I do."

EXACTLY. And it is completely and entirely in her hands no matter what you say or do. This is what sooooo many LBHs get wrong.

You will not talk her back to the MR. You will not romance her back. You will not nice her back. You will not pursue her back.

The only thing you can do is continue to give her space and let her wonder what you are doing. ballast the fact that she thinks you have moved on is to your advantage. She will either wake up or she won't.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018