I was kind of going on Sandi's advice and her convo that it would be almost impossible to do separately (financially only at this point)
I realize this is exerting an enormous amount of pressure for her to get back into the MR. I am not using it as an excuse to get her back in. I am merely stating that if she wants to relocate out of a city that she "hates" that at the present time, I could make that happen, but only if we were working together to make that happen. It would be easier, cleaner and cheaper if we would work together as a team to get this done. The other alternatives are that we remain in a city that she "hates". That she funds her own relocation. Either is only my problem as it relates to how we are going to co-parent if we S and D. I don't know how this all works since I've been employed since I was 14, but how does someone qualify to rent a property with no income? And yes, I realize "not my problem" except that if she can't end up moving, I have leased a place in another city, they it just gets uglier as far as custody, kids, schools, etc.
She did send me an email earlier stating she tried to set another mediation appointment and they cancelled/deleted that one as well. I didn't, but almost responded that "I think someone is trying to tell you something".
Just to recap. I know it is pressure. The job is a good opportunity for myself and my kids (W is of course considered if she is in the MR). How do I proceed with this?
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18
