Thanks guys..Yes, I feel like I'm doing everything that I possibly can and I can draw at least a little bit of peace knowing that I've exhausted all avenues to make this M work...
Joseph, Actually when I visited my therapist the day after the BD and explained everything her exact words were "This has nothing to do with you or anything you did...It is all about my wife going through an internal struggle", which being a man the first thing I wanted to do was help fix it but it is a journey that she's got to take alone..
Like everyone says on here "Patience isn't a virture, it is a NECESSITY"...Which can be very difficult when you are so longing for the life you had before the BD...Nevertheless, this is something that has been done to me and I have to try and control the only thing that I can and that is my reaction to it...
