NC - My W never raged at me, never yelled at me, never disrespected me in front of my girls, didn't do a lot of things that you read about on this board. Make no mistake though she was done. She was a respectful WAW/WW in that sense but she was done. She went about it the nice way. She killed me with kindness and in many respects I fell for it. I moved her out of the house into an apt, I gave her money from time to time, I moved her from her apt into her permanent residency, I helped her pick out TV's for her new place, she would invite me out to dinner and all the while I thought maybe there was some hope, that maybe she was moving closer, I had no proof of OM so maybe she was starting to come around.
Two week ago she told she had a BF and they are now exclusive, she had been dating since about 3 months after she moved out, and just got a boob job on Monday.
Stay dark and go NC.....if she wants to return to the MR and work on it she will let you know.
I would also not set a timeline......you will know when your ready emotionally. It took my EW 8 months from the time she moved out to tell me she wanted a D. I firmly believe it took her that long to find her current BF and I was plan B all along. She just kept everything a secret from me and since we were separated I never snooped.
