JS, LBHs are free to make whatever decisions they want. However, you do need to do it with eyes wide open. Taking a job in the other city and expecting your W to move there, together, as a family, is pursuit. It doesn't exert pressure. Just be aware that the results of that may be for her to head for the hills.
If that is a calculated risk you are willing to take, then go for it. But be prepared for any outcome. Do not put your eggs all in a single basket. Have a Plan A, B and C!!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
