You're right AS. I saw them and they haven't shown anything or said anything that would confirm my thinking. So, it has been mind reading and needing validation on my part. It's also the part of me that always tried to please everyone, which I am not doing anymore, but this just highlighted that there are still some lingering tendencies that I need to work out of my system.
I honestly have no idea what W has said to anybody. And actions speak louder than words and I conduct myself with dignity, which definitely shows.
I've also completely left her alone with NC/Dark, which was something they had suggested to me as well. So, there shouldn't be any problem with that if they think why I am not reaching out or being buddies with her.
Her dad had told me that I will always be part of their family. He says what he means and so I believe they hold me with good regard and respect.
So, yeh, it came down to just me and my jedi mind tricks lol