Every time there has been anything positive in my sitch from WAH it is followed by something devastating, the nicer he is the worse the after effect is. So tread carefully, it is great if he is coming around but such things take a long time to happen. Be weary of any sudden changes, how involved is he in your Ss life and his summer vacation plans?
That's how my H is, Arsh18, he's been doing a two step forward one step back lately but this past week he's taking a step forward and still not steps back yet. They are baby steps and nothing huge but it gives me more hope. I've learned to take it with a grain of salt and prepare for the slip backwards.
He's made vacation plans to take a day off every week this summer to spend the day with our son on top of our already agreed schedule. He's actually taking him out to more public places and being more patient with him. Our son is on the spectrum and it used to embarrass and frustrate H when we couldn't take our son to many places without him having meltdowns. But lately he's calmer and is smiling when they tell me about their time together.
Together for 13 years, married for 8. H is 46 I'm 40 S is 6 Bombdrop in April 2018 Still in limbo as of 2019
