Nutcrac - this whole NC thing has been addressed in your thread and with the overwhelming response by the board, you are clearly in the minority and dead wrong about it. Please don't project your way of doing things to what DBing is about. You have clearly not followed the NC/Dark route for a long enough time to understand the nuances of it.
NC/Dark can go for MONTHS!!! Let me repeat that - MONTHS!!! only then you can actually see the outcomes and result of it. Most people who have recon here, have done that. You are simply not following the advice given to you and that's upto you.
I did NC/DARK for 12 months now, and W is still showing anger and rage. You can't short circuit this process. Go through this process for at least a year and then report back.
Ballast - if I were you, I would ignore Nut's take on NC/dark. It is simply not correct.