C - Lifting weights, playing basketball, being a great father, this board, and taking my girls to church is what helped me get through the darkest moments.
I considered myself a very good DBer which ultimately saved me but did not save my marriage. By all accounts I was a good husband and father before BD but when someone wants out bad enough there is little you can do. Just know it is more about them than you and even though it currently [censored] you will find peace.