Firstly she is frightened for herself and yes it can be her emotion without foundation and it can be genuine. I did ask if you were controlling because a couple of your comments came across that way. This might mean that W feels it's your way or the highway.
You dismissed my clean questions immediately without reflection. Is this usual for you with feedback.
The second explanation is that it's a tactic on her part
Either way you need an L.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW