she is referring to herself as the stay at home babysitter, not me.

Next update.

She comes home from her night out and makes a racket when she comes in. The next morning after she has left for work, i get up to have my shower and notice she has got a 2nd elliptical trainer in here bedroom. It mad me laugh as we had one in the uk and i think we used it 6 times in 5 years, it was an expensive clothes hanger.

So i go out on Wednesday and do GAL activity. All was well when i come. except my daughter was upset and the W was trying to explain confidence issues, where she quotes shallow Hal, How nuts is that.

Then i come home from work on Thursday and she asks when i have some free time without the kids being there, can we have a chat. I say yes, then said i can meet you on my lunch break tomorrow, she hesitated but said yes. But i checked my calendar and i have a busy day. so i say we will have to reschedule. So she says that she doesn't want the kids to be here when we talk, but off she goes, telling me that the longer she lives with me the more resentful she feels for me and will eventually hate me. Then she barks on about the house, i keep my stance and I'm not selling it. This is while my daughter is in the same room as us.
She keeps going on that she hasn't got the money, calls me over for being many things.
She cannot saved for furniture, so i say again, take everything downstairs, If i was trying to get away from someone, i would grab what i can. She then says her dad has stopped talking to her as she wants to move out, she cries many times, blaming me for this.
I just sit there, listening and showing no emotion. Then dinner is ready and we all site at the dinning table and starts a normal conversation with me. Again, really nuts.

It's wiping me out a bit now, so i go out and take the dog for a walk. come back 90 minutes later and the D12 and W are on the sofa browsing the web and the W is laughing out loud at things they are doing.
I put my S10 to bed and say goodnight, The W says it's on 8:45, its a bi early for bed. We all normally go to bed at this time.

I'm a bit sluggish and not in my groove today. All the different personalities last night has drained me.