My little daughters 2 - securing their future

[Vanilla]

Thanks Nicole, great advice, making notes
To clarify when I said he is free to do as he wishes I meant since there is no agreement, mediation is not an option so he is free to proceed with D thru Ls or just drop the crazy idea, i m not explicitly saying any of this just leaving the ball in his court

Can the other veterans please help me DB vet my speech too?

I am not a vet but I have experience of this.

Please Google the high conflict institute. There are resources for court action in high conflict sitches.

You will need to know your financial bottom line and also to know the family resources.

This mediation is a BUSINESS meeting on the fins, you will need to keep emotions out of it. It isn't to discuss the emotions or whether you can R. It is for terms and you will need Fin INTEL.

It is not to persuade WH to change his mind, you are not mediating a reconciliation but a separation.

That's hard to know.

So you have to know your bottom line on custody, visitation, maintains a, housing.

A lot of it will be numbers.

I assume you know how a mediation is conducted?

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