My little daughters 2 - securing their future

[Vanilla]

Systemic abuse usually shows it's ugly head when the abuser isn't getting the control they need and want.

It is in the personality and character. Someone of great character would get out of an R or M with dignity and respect not abuse. Your WH is behaving in a seriously abusive way to get what he wants.

Eventually I think you will see this emerging over time.

The mask has fallen and you see him as he is. In future it won't be hidden as it is now unmasked.

Sadly you will have to manage your way out of this to get the best result for you and your family.

V