Originally Posted By: ballast
Also I STILL DO NOT KNOW if my W has OM! Although from what I've learned basically that does not change how I approach my sitch.


That's not so.

A wayward is VERY different to a walk away. Very different.

If your W is a walk away stick very strictly to classic DB. You work on you. You do not go NC but remain friendly neighbour.

DON'T EVER treat a walk away as if she was a wayward. It will confirm your jerk status, accusing her of cheating when she isn't.

Assess why she is walking and resolve it, and MC can work with walkaways as long as the MC is pro M.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW