The financial stress came from me being out of work for a year. I had transitioned and then found out I was preggo with my baby boy and we decided it was best for me to wait until he was born and settled before me going back. I'm big time into making sure all finances are in order so the stress of that the past 8 months or so has been so overwhelming for me. Maybe longer. I would worry all the time. He had admittted that he felt that was the reason we had do many issues, bcme not used to not working and such. That, he felt that I would get back to work and things would go back to normal. So it all made sense, that is why he was coming around right before I went back to work. On top of that, it seeems that whenever we get back to a good pace, a crazy scenario happens. Adding stress. His mo. Had been our plan for baby sitting. Well, the first week that crashed and burned. Then the next week my friend crashed and burned. So now I'm paying for a sitter, which is needed stability, but also the stress of paying for it.
I know he is stressed also. I just feel like I'm living in it more than him bc I'm doing all the work now. Kids, house, work. It's a lot. It's taking me a while to get regrounded so to speak. I feel like I may have lost him in all the mess. I can't 100% blame myself either bc I went thru a pregnancy. And when a preggo lady is stressed..... WATCH OUT. lol.
