OK, so then that begs the question... Do i decline any future initiations? It doesn't happen often, so it might have been a fathers day present, or could have been an attempt to control. If it happens again any time soon, I think that would answer the question and prove that it's her grasping for control. How do I decline to make sure it makes the right impact/impression? I don't want to come across as mean or spiteful, but would really like something to jar her into the realization that I'm not OK living the rest of my days in this current sitch.
How do you decline? Just find another, more interesting activity. Turning down women even when you aren't in your situation is playing with dynamite. They will have a hard time understanding that you are: -too tired -already occupied -have something else to do
"Sorry, but I can't right now". And go right back to what you were doing. Plus, you might pick up an STD if you keep doing this. Have you read my threads? Not that I know for sure, but your health is serious stuff.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
