Not so new here. #2

[hongaku]

I feel you on the financial issues being the crux of your strife. I feel like this has been the primary source of tension between my W and me. With each new child, it only got worse and her fixation on needing to make more money would escalate.

Just keep doing what you are doing - getting back to yourself and dive headlong into GAL. Do not take the bait if it seems like an argument over finances is imminent when you interact w/H. Detach and let go of him for now.