Sandi2,

Im prepared to do all of that. My dillemma is that i was advised legally not to leave the house. And shes not willing to leave either, probably for same reason.

As far as proof of affair. I just want to make sure that certain people no the truth. Primarily family and close friends. Otherwise she has already shown that she will blame me.

Hopr that makes sense.

Thank you for all your input,

Mark