Husband left for the second time - 5

[STH17]

Are others here still wearing their wedding rings? When my husband asked for a divorce in January and then took his girlfriend to Dubai I stopped wearing mine. It felt like the right thing to do. On the other hand, I don't want to falsely advertise that I'm single when I'm still married.

I wore mine until the day a few weeks ago when I told my wife I believed she was having an affair and I would no longer be sleeping on the couch. I wore it on a necklace for a week or two but keep it in a backpack that goes everywhere with me. It's one of many things I have a hard time trusting my decision about, but felt good to actually make a decision at the time. I have some fear that my commitment to W will weaken, as hers did while not wearing her rings. I think that is part of my fear of letting go of my M in general.