Walk Away Spouse after 6 yrs - Part 2

[Nutcrac]

Again, for the last time since you don't want to hear it, the better option was just to remove your consent for dissolution and let her deal with it. Either she'd push forward with D, or she'd cancel everything hoping to convince you to dissolution at some point in the future.

Can I ask what nationality you are? Your English is unconventional. You also have a bit of a biased opinion of women. You keep talking about women being stubborn and prideful. Last I checked women didn't have a monopoly on that. In fact, you yourself are showing yourself to be very prideful and stubborn. Just saying.

Withdrawing consent without letting her know would have been the WORST option given the circumstances. It would prove to my wife I have something hidden sinister agendas and ultimately wanted to go for her money and all this dissolution was just an eye wash to her. Like I said the only way to withdraw consent is on the final hearing date in front of the magistrate. There is no formal paperwork that needs to be filed prior to that. By letting her know my decision in advance was based on my attorney's suggestions. So she could have had enough time to think about what she wants to do after discussing with her attorney. By letting her know about my decision, she was at least aware of the fact that she has 2 options, agree or disagree and would know the outcome in advance.

I don't want to point out my country but I am from South Asia . Yes you are right regarding my bias. Women from my country have a bit more stubborn pride and too conservative unlike many western nations. I was a pretty easy going guy. Alas I have become stubborn these days due to frustration and stress but not that I can't control