Acc...I don't want to lose focus on my sitch first and foremost, although hearing what my sister said and then the sitch you describe above, I'm having a HUGE case of the hopeless these days.
I will continue to support my sister as best I can. It is not my place to say anything to BIL until/unless she BD's him. No idea what she will plan to do.
Like I say it was bad enough dealing with my own sitch, then to have sister's come up and with all of her feelings that I believe my W has...in a compounded bad place right now. Hard seeing how my W doesn't have an OM and I'm already done for. Just trying to hang in and keep going each day.
