So lets take this as a test and let me know what you think according to you would be the outcome? Do you think she will agree to stall for 2 more months? Or she will simply say no and convert it to a divorce process? My gut feeling is despite her hate towards me, she will choose the first option!
Yes she will stall hoping to get her dissolution. No she will not say no because she wants the easy way out (dissolution).
You are right in your prediction but not for reconciliation, but simply to eventually get what she wants.
So are you saying she is ready to stall and come back to the same options after 2 months. I may still have an option to extend this or convert to divorce. Why will she take more pain then what she currently has? That would be a dumb thing to do. The best option for her now is to convert this to divorce process if she really wants to get out easily !
Let me make it as easy for you as I can:
She wants dissolution because it is easier. She wants to avoid D for the reasons she gave you in your update. You said she has a choice: delay the dissolution for 2 months or D.
She said she'd consider the delay because: a) divorce proceedings will take 6 months+. b) Dissolution is her ultimate goal c) in the grand scheme of things 2 months isn't that long.
So yes, she is willing to wait 2 more months to avoid having to move for D. She is hoping the 2 months will cause you to NOT withdraw your consent.
Nutcrac, how are you not seeing this?! I'll say this, if she has an inclination that there is no way you will consent to dissolution after 2 months, then she WILL let it proceed to D. In fact, I dare you to tell her that in 2 months you will still be against dissolution. She will convert to D so fast your head will spin.
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