Pursuing will not get you the results you seek. I can tell you that from Experience
OrangeK I have read your sticth. There are many similaraties between your W and mine in terms of behaviour especially Narcisism and BPD. However there is one major diff - Your wife is WW and mine is a WAW with broken heart. They are 2 different breeds. A WW is more cheating and a lot more manipulative compared to a WAW who is broken hearted. Anyways, I will wait for her response. She has too much anger in her. And she may slowly diffuse it hoping if I take things the right way. Lets see where it goes.
I do not think you know this for sure. There could be an OM. Your stubborn pride will probably say no way. But we've all thought that and have been wrong. Nutcrac most people do not move on from their MR unless they have a solid other option in place. Sorry to be blunt, but monkeys don't jump from the branch they are on unless they think there is a better branch to jump to.
So the jury is still out in your sitch on whether or not you W is a WW or not. And it is very dangerous to assume she isn't.
Again , this is your opinion. Yes i am stubborn. And i have said this earlier. She IS NOT seeing anyone. And for a millionth time this is true. If that was the case she could have told me so I could move on as well. When my friends went she discussed about moving on with her life as a single mother with an adopted child at her home country. I know her. (You may disagree and dismiss my opinion) but she is not seeing anyone. Infact sandi2 will affirm from my stitch that there is no other man involved.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
