yes I'm trying to encourage my sis to take her time. To know that she is WW and how that will impact her and my BIL/family is extremely painful. It is clear she is suffering. it is very surreal for me to be hearing firsthand a WW mindset. it is challenging for me to not directly convey how my sis is feeling to my sitch. And yes her no feelings for sure are coming from the OM contact. As sandi has said while there's an OM, the LBH is out of luck really best I can tell.
I wish that I had gotten the chance from my W to go to counseling. I would have taken that opportunity for sure and perhaps could have precluded myself from being where I am now.
