You are doing well. Now that you've had some distance put between you, you can see just how irrational he truly is. He's going to do everything in his power to mess w/your mind and try to have you second guessing yourself.
I like the fact that you have a scheduling app and really, that's the only way to set up the schedules of your sons. The less you have to interact w/him, the better.
Time, space and patience are the keys to healing...oh...one more thing...a sense of humor.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
