It often falls on deaf ears but I urge the other guys to act as if they don't give a crap and they are moving on. Both for themselves and the Rs. We are scared of letting go and losing control. I see it in myself. I read about it here.
Solid. I know I've recently posted in a couple of poster's threads about this very thing. The thing is letting go is about regaining control, not losing it. Regaining control over ourselves and our emotions. The illusion of losing control over our WAS is just that, an illusion. Because we never had that control to begin with.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018