Steve...really, really struggling to see that it can be flipped back over. It was so "revealing" talking to my Sis as I mean I'm literally inside the mind of an active WW and she is asking me to support her. The no feelings she did acknowledge was due to OM.
I have told her that she knows right from wrong. I can feel the pull of the OM on her. What is also amazing is that I know my BIL needs to own his part of this. What my sis has done is flat wrong, but a few years ago she told BIL she was not happy, asked for him to go to counseling and he refused. He flat out blew that. In my sitch had my W said that to me, I'd have been/done whatever I could.
I will add my sis feels horrible, I mean completely. Truly this is the craziest, most tragic thing I've ever experienced. So many of us LBHs feel hopeless in our sitchs, BUT from direct knowledge I think so many of the WWs feel hopeless as well from their point of view.
