So I replied to W. All business, speaking only on issues regarding D.
My middle sister telling me she is WW rocked me yesterday. Her statements of no feelings, no chance for my bro-in-law...it's like I'm trying to support my sister who is exactly as my W. Beyond my thoughts of hope in my own sitch, now I'm at a point where with women in general for men your time with them is like an hourglass. It starts off wonderful until the "sand" is all gone and then they are "no feelings", done and there is nothing you can do to get them back. I know that my life can and will go on no matter what...I'm drawing strength from the fact that I will go on to disprove the world of all the pain it's throwing at me this year...but my belief in marriage for my generation being successful...shaken to my core.
I hold my D and kiss her and tell her I love her like there's no tomorrow...it's the only true love that will last in this world I believe in anymore.
Remember, the hourglass can always be flipped back over.
I don't know your sisters sitch, but I would be careful just blindly supporting her. Wrong is wrong and if what she is doing is wrong you should be sure to tell her that. You might be the wake up call your sister needs in order to save her marriage! Just a thought. One other, I know it can be difficult to be objective, after all you love and care about your sister. But try to remain objective about it. Maybe your BIL is a lying, cheating piece of garbage and your sister has every right to leave him. Or maybe your sister has allowed other things to become too big of a priority in her life and she is throwing away a commitment she made for life, frivolously. You called her WW, so I am assuming the former is true, and if so you should tell her to snap out of it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
