mac, your wife is a grown woman. Sorry, but you can misplace your anger and blame at N1 and N2 if that makes you feel better. But it is just like trying to blame an OM, it doesn't work. If N1/N2 got your W to leave, then something else would have eventually if they hadn't.

So don't focus on N1/N2. They are outside of your sphere of control.

Do you know where your sphere of control stops? With you! So continue to focus on your changes.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018