Thanks for the input S85- I wonder how much of it is S wanting to try to talk her into coming back home? I thought that too.
Arsh- If your W is involved in your Ss life it is both their good fortune, otherwise you are always there for him, his stable parent. Just want to add to that a little- If W is is involved and making a positive impact on Ss life. It will be both their good fortune. Just because she is involved does not mean it is positive. Nevertheless a good relationship will facilitate growth.
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18