Thanks for the input S85- I wonder how much of it is S wanting to try to talk her into coming back home? I thought that too.

Arsh- If your W is involved in your Ss life it is both their good fortune, otherwise you are always there for him, his stable parent.
Just want to add to that a little- If W is is involved and making a positive impact on Ss life. It will be both their good fortune. Just because she is involved does not mean it is positive.
Nevertheless a good relationship will facilitate growth.


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18