update- S was off school today. I noticed he was not his usual self. To the point he seemed unable to focus on getting his chores done. Then it clicked -today S was to have dinner with W. S was a running a little late. On the way to Ws apartment I noticed this blank empty stare. So I asked him " You seem a liitle off- are you ok?" He sorta blurted out-Yep. Then I asked " Anything I can do to help?". He said " nothing you can do". So it was quiet ride to W. I had cleaned up shaved put on cologne just in case she was going to be there. I thought I would be nervous pulling up to her place but I seemed to be doing ok. No racing heart beats - no panicked feelings.W was not at the front so I told S to buzz her and give me the thumbs up when she buzzed him in. He gave me the thumbs up and off I left. NC with W. He was to stay an hour but he came home after an hour and a half. He came in and asked about baseball practice - I said I drove by the field and because of the rain there was lots of big puddles we cancelled it. Off the cuff I asked " how was it at mums?" His response was - "Ah OK." I said since we do not have a practice you want to do something together- he said "Nah- I'm ok"- turned around and left. First of all I'm not mind reading and what happens between them is their thing. Just wondering- for S sake- do you think this meeting was good bad or indifferent? I know not to pry.
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18