it all hit me tonight...so depressed!!!

[OrangeK]

Is there a chance we can get thru this????

Yes, if that's what you decide. Doesn't make it a guarantee, but a lot of this is up to you.

Don't rush any decisions with divorce. leave that monster alone until you make a 100% decision on if that's what you want or DO NOT want.


Can you forgive cheating? that will come down the road.
If you cannot (and that is totally fine) you will eventually need to look into divorce.
If you can, you will need to be PATIENT. this will take YEARS.

Listen to the Vets.
Move her stuff out, go dark, walk away.
Dont share your bedroom with a cheater.
Let it be known you do not tolerate this.
Set your boundaries. Read Sandi's Rules and go GAL and be the best damn Fmly1st you can be.