Nut,

I read and watch all these videos. Your W is not your Ex. And these fellas aren't marriage experts.

Neither are we. But we have all experienced BD. We have all walked thru the fire, especially those giving you advice. Yes every Sitch is different but the WW and WAW mindset has similarities and the one thing that they both need is space and time. You are becoming impatient.

But the one thing I have learned that all LBS has to try one last thing, even me. They all say, "what do I have to lose". After they try what they thought, they come back and say. "This is what happened, what now". And its exactly what most people on this forum says what would happen.

Good luck, your sitch might have a different outcome. I hope so.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.