No I am not trying to find any magical solution here. I will tell you this. Woman have a stubborn pride which makes them to say manipulative things. All i am saying is soon after the separation, No Contact is the first choice. That is the foundation step. Once they are left alone for a while, they will definitely miss the LBH. However, If the LBH does not connect again, the relationship will fade away as time goes by or creates negative illusions in the WAW mindset where she thinks this guy is gone for good. Mine was a SSM marraige. The only way for me to get her back is to show true affection after No contact / Going Dark. While I was living with her, she had read an article which clearly pointed out about the LBH pursuing the WAW. I think she has this in her mind. I am not saying this may work. But something that needs to be thought of.
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M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
