may i suggest you read Hoosjim's situation?.. when, just a couple of months ago, he finally stood up to his wife, after months and months of her Waywardness, and told her he would not tolerate her affair... you might find some inner strength if you start there...
--artista
^^^Yup.
You will never look more attractive to her than when you are walking away. I think I am going to change my profile signature to include that line. It's gold.
And FF, it sounds like from reading your sitch that you at least have some good memories and a foundation for a relationship with your W... At the time of my WW's BD on me, we had NONE of that. And yet we still made it back from the brink.
Don't put up with the disrespect and abuse of an affair. Listen to Sandi2 and Artista. They WERE WW's... they have LIVED this.
Be strong, man! Sending up some prayers for ya...
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
