WW in MLC in need of advice-Part 2

[Natash]

let me get this straight? She is active with OM, but she is saying it is YOU who does not want to make it work?!

So, she is only willing to drop OM if she can ensure you back?

What you need is boundaries. "I do not want to be back with you as long as you are involved with OM" Simple. "we can entertain family parties together if there is no OM and you re willing to work on the M"

But right now, as she is in an active A, she has cojones to say what she did to you. IMHO.

Yes, as far as I can tell you got it right. I agree I need a boundary or two and plan to send her a message tonight stating that boundary. I have been thinking about it and now after reading it, I think it is exactly what I need to do. Two simple sentences and put the ball in her court while I continue GAL on days I do not have kids and enjoying the days when I do have my girls. Four weeks from now I will be having another Birthday party for D7 so it will be interesting to see where things go from here.