I am agreeing with Sandi on the MC issue.

Please Do not MC with a wayward. It won't work and will leave you in a worse and weaker position.

It's saying you are partly responsible for me dropping my knickers. If you had......

No.

It was her choice. If she had clammed up instead of cheating then she wouldn't have cheated.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW