(((((exquisitetobe)))) - I'm so very sorry for your loss but am glad that you had that one last blessed moment with your mother.

Depending on your own wishes I might suggest that you thank your ex-h for his concern and kind thoughts but ask to be left to grieve on your own with your siblings and children.

You could suggest perhaps that he make a donation to a favourite charity of your Mother's in her name. That's what I did when my ex-in-laws passed and it did help me to know that I recognized their passing and that their children knew that I grieved with them even though I chose to not intrude.

More hugs (((exquisitetobe)))

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