Also wondering about birthday for daughter coming up. Celebrate together or separate?
If she doesn't want to be with you, and physically separates.....then you stop engaging in family celebrations together. She can have a birthday celebration for the child, and you can have another celebration for her. That's how D'd parents do things. You don't continue to play happy family together.
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Feeling like F you go ahead and move on without me. I brought up divorce and W asks if that is what I want and seems to almost cringe. Maybe she is just scared but at this point I do not even want to give the three months I agreed to.
If you make decisions based on emotions, you will regret it later.
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We are splitting everything anyway so why not just D. I honestly can not think of any reason to stay married.
Marriage is more than an accumulation of "things".
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
