This convo is highly inappropriate. If it was V I would have closed it down straight away as crossing a boundary. So I would like to start there.
Allowing this convo at all indicates weak boundaries. It's disrespectful to you despite the content. If this is typical for you then I suggest IC and discuss boundary enforcement.
Is lack of respect for you and your boundaries typical?
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW