WW in MLC in need of advice-Part 2

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If your end objective is to reconcile, I certainly cant tell from what youve written here. You sound cold to me and as though you are perceiving yourself to be in a one up position in response to her showing signs wanting to have a R talk.

Thank you for your observation, I did not realize and do not want to sound cold. I've struggled with NGS in the past and wanted to come across as brief and to the point. I want to reconcile only if and when she ends the affair and shows some remorse. I feel like I'm doing well with detatching and every advise I've read says stay clear of R talks.