Im thinking like you are but unfortuanely our counciling is a week away which a lot of time for people to change her mind. Most people will deny to the bitter end...even with pictures staring them in the face.
I would ask her to leave if she wasnt willing to give up affair. And we would have to start to work on our problems, spending time,together, with our kids, anf,counciling.
But im afraid that shes not going to be ready yet because i really believe this is a limerance sitch, and it hasnt run its course yet. Im also curious to see others opinions on the counciling? Is it counterproductive to do that right now if she is infatuated with this guy? Should i just do 180s and work on myself?
Ill tell you one thing, this is physically and mentally exhausting!!!
