Ok bouncing back much quicker Tried to get waiver notarized this morning but it apparently needs to be done in the state I am from Called WAW and told her that I would not be able to sign until I am back in 3 weeks but that I could cut my trip short and come home now to deal with it and not put her out with watching the pets in my absence. She repeatedly said not for me not to cut my trip and work short and that is was ok and that all that mattered was that I tried. Which was in complete and total opposition to the day before where at all costs I had to take care of this now. Which was a relief and made me feel like I still had some agency over the changes I am making for myself and maybe they do matter to her also. I have alot of questions about pursuit at this point.
M 40 W 34 Together 7 Married 2 No Kids BD 1/18 need space Moved out 2/18 ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18 W filed for D 6/18 D final 10/18