Can I really do this #3

[SteveLW]

I would just ignore it for now. If it becomes important you can address it later. Could be related to the move to the other city?

On the move, I would hold pat on that as well. It does sound like it might be a way for her to get you to move forward on S and eventually D without her having to lift a finger. Just like with D, make her do the work for S too. Tell her you are supportive of a move to the other city next time she brings it up and leave it at that.