Advice for newcomer pre- bomb drop.

[Bern19]

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Are you referring to Rule #17?

17. You need to make your partner think that you have had an awakening and, as far as you are concerned, you are going to move on with your life, with or without your spouse.


What do you mean taking off and not giving an explanation about GAL? Which rule are you talking about?

I guess I got confused here. Turns out I associated another's post as one of your rules..

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I would start working on yourself. Hit the gym, hangout with friends. Dont invite her to any of it. The more you try to please her the more you will push her away. Do things because you want to do them, not because you think it will make her happy.

I don't think that just going off without an explanation would do anything but magnify the negatives she already associates with me. I know i need to do some serious 180's, but not sure that one would be productive.